Many people come to couples therapy feeling discouraged and expecting to be judged. In my experience, both partners are in a lot of pain. Unremitting anger, sarcasm or silence are often ways people react because they are unable to show hurt or frightened. My experience is that many people who are experiencing difficulties in their relationships have the potential, with good coaching, to learn the skills that can enable them to build a more loving relationship in which each person understands more about themselves and their partner.
Please feel free to call me; I would be happy to talk with you about your situation;