I believe a loving marriage/long term relationship can be either a source of encouragement, affection and friendship or a source of disappointment, hurt and loneliness. I often work with couples who appear to really want their relationship to work but something is in the way. A betrayal of trust, poor coping skills, secrets, a partner with untreated addiction or mental disorders are all very difficult to cope with when each person is trying to get their view of the problem heard.
I work with couples to set new guidelines for listening and talking and to learn their goals for the relationship. Most of us did not grow up with parents trained in how to improve communication when you are hurt, angry or insecure. In fact, maybe more than a few of us saw parents argue or refuse to communicate at tough times. The great news is that communication skills among couples can be learned and can help a couple grow closer and more skilled at showing love for their partner.
I enjoy working with couples and individuals who are struggling. I offer online sessions for clients throughout Louisiana. If you would like to schedule a 30 minute no charge consult then please reach out to me. If you are seeking couples therapy then I like for both clients to meet me at the same time before a plan forward is made. Don't hesitate to contact me if you have any questions.
