I believe that most marriages are like roller coasters with highs and lows and peaks and valleys. When the valleys are really low and last for a long time, one or both partners may ask themselves, “Do I want to stay in this marriage. Don’t I deserve more?”
In my 35 years of experience I have found that with hard work and proper help, most marriages can thrive, not just survive. This is true even if there has been an affair.
I work collaboratively with you to assess where the problems lie, what your strengths are and how we can quickly move toward solutions. We concentrate on building fondness and connection as well as resolving conflicts. My approach is practical and results oriented. My goal is to be extinct as quickly as possible and to send you on your way with new skills and abilities.
I strongly value long term marriage. I have been married for many, many years and have 4 children and 10 grandchildren. I have learned invaluable lessons in my own marriage.
I have so much respect for every couple who asks me to help them save their marriage. I am known to say “I will knock myself out helping you avoid divorce. We’re in this together.”
