I have over 60 years of practice with couples and families. I believe in starting in couple’s work with where my clients are.
Couples usually come to me with problem stories. These problem stories have real effects on them and produce effects such as defeat, hopelessness, and fears of marital failure.
I see my role as helping them reduce the effects of the problems in their lives and relationships and help them restore and reconnect their lives and relationships.
Sometimes loving feelings and practices seem to get lost in the face of anger, attributions, and misunderstandings. I work on improving communication and relationship problem-solving.
Couples define when they have reached their goals. I provide tune-ups as needed.