by Dr. Nili Sachs
In the best of intimate relationships, there are those subtle and not so subtle waves of difficulties. Some disagreements make sense; his words against hers, her values in the face of his values, old traditions vs. new ideas and so on. However, over few years living with a partner, attempting and working on intimacy, you could see few patterns emerging. Those patterns might be complicated for you to detect when you are a part of the ‘drama’.
For me, after thirty years of marriage-therapy and relationship-coaching, I find them simple to detect. Solving relationships’ problems take commitment, education and good will. From here the solutions are pretty much straightforward.
Some of these patterns are signs of troubled relationships. Here is the list of the seven most damaging intimate relationships’ troubles and their solutions:
How would you like to improve, strengthen or even save, in some cases, your intimate relationship? For relationship coaching and /or a therapy appointment (in Minnesota or Nevada) or background information on Dr. Nili Sachs please visit her profile or www.DrNili.com.
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